How do l test if someone is attracted to me?

Attraction isn’t always spoken out loud, but the body and behavior often give it away. If you’re wondering whether someone likes you more than a friend, watch for these signs:

1. Body Language Speaks Volumes

  • They lean in when you talk, closing the distance.

  • They face you directly and keep open posture.

  • They mirror your movements without realizing it.

2. Eye Contact is Strong 👀

  • Long, lingering eye contact can signal desire.

  • Their pupils may dilate when they look at you.

  • They look at your lips during conversation.

3. They Find Excuses to Touch You ✋

  • Light touches on your arm, shoulder, or back.

  • Brushing against you “accidentally.”

  • Playful physical interactions like nudges or high-fives.

4. Their Voice Changes Around You 🎤

  • Softer or deeper tone when speaking.

  • More laughter, nervous giggles, or excitement.

  • They say your name more often.

5. They Pay Extra Attention to You 💫

  • Remember small details you share.

  • Compliment your appearance or personality.

  • Prioritize spending time with you, even in group settings.

6. Signs of Nervous Excitement ⚡

  • Fidgeting, blushing, or smiling more than usual.

  • Playing with hair, jewelry, or clothes.

  • Restless energy when you’re near.

7. They Find Reasons to Stay Connected 📱

  • Quick replies to your messages.

  • Random check-ins or sharing things “that reminded me of you.”

  • Making future plans together.

✅ Final Thought:
No single sign guarantees attraction, but when several of these cues line up—especially body language + attention—it’s a strong indicator they’re into you.

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