How do you properly apply massage oil?

Using massage oil correctly ensures smooth movements, better glide, and a relaxing experience for your partner or client. Here’s how to do it right:

1. Choose the Right Oil

  • Pick an oil suitable for your purpose and skin type.

    • Coconut, almond, or jojoba for general massage.

    • Coconut or jojoba for sensitive skin.

    • Avoid heavily scented or irritating oils on sensitive areas.

2. Warm the Oil

  • Pour a small amount into your hands or a bowl.

  • Rub your palms together to warm it slightly.

  • Warm oil feels more comfortable and helps muscles relax.

3. Start with Small Amounts

  • Begin with a few drops and gradually add more as needed.

  • You can always add more, but too much at once can feel greasy and messy.

4. Apply with Smooth, Even Strokes

  • Use long, gliding motions along the muscles.

  • Avoid pressing directly on bones or joints.

  • Cover all areas gradually—start from the back or shoulders and work your way down.

5. Use Both Hands

  • Spread the oil evenly using both palms.

  • Alternate between light strokes for relaxation and firmer strokes for deeper tissue work.

6. Respect Boundaries

  • Only massage areas your partner is comfortable with.

  • For sensitive or intimate areas, ensure consent and proper dilution if using essential oils.

7. Clean Up Afterwards

  • Wipe excess oil with a towel if necessary.

  • Shower or wash hands thoroughly after intimate massages.

  • Wash sheets or towels to prevent stains.

🌸 Bottom Line

Properly applying massage oil involves choosing the right oil, warming it, using small amounts, applying smooth strokes, and respecting comfort and boundaries. The goal is a relaxing, nourishing massage that feels comfortable for both the giver and receiver.

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