How do you take out a menstrual cup with your finger?

Step-by-Step Guide for Safe & Easy Removal

If you're new to menstrual cups, inserting one might seem like the hard part—but what about getting it out?

“How do I remove a menstrual cup with just my finger?”
“What if I can’t reach it?”
“Will it spill or hurt?”

Don’t worry. Removing your cup with your finger is totally normal and safe, and once you get the hang of it, it becomes second nature.

Let’s walk through the exact steps.

🧼 Step 1: Wash Your Hands

Before anything else, wash your hands thoroughly with warm water and mild soap. Your hands will be going inside your vagina, so clean them first to avoid introducing bacteria.

🧘 Step 2: Get Comfortable

Find a position that makes removal easier. Here are a few you can try:

  • Sit on the toilet

  • Stand with one leg on the toilet or bathtub

  • Squat in the shower (great for beginners)

  • Lean back slightly while sitting

Pro tip: Removing your cup in the shower is often easier and less messy, especially when learning.

👆 Step 3: Locate the Cup with Your Finger

Insert your index or middle finger into your vagina and feel for:

  • The stem (a small tab or ring at the bottom of the cup)

  • Or the base of the cup (round, smooth bottom part)

If you can’t reach it:

  • Take a deep breath and relax your pelvic muscles

  • Try bearing down gently (like you're having a bowel movement) to push the cup lower

🫳 Step 4: Pinch the Base to Release the Seal

Once you reach the base of the cup, pinch it gently between your finger and thumb. This:

  • Breaks the suction seal

  • Allows the cup to slide out comfortably

⚠️ Never pull on the stem alone—that can cause discomfort and won’t release the suction.

If pinching is tricky:

  • Wiggle your finger up the side of the cup and press it inward to break the seal

  • You might hear or feel a small "pop" when the seal releases—totally normal!

🧲 Step 5: Wiggle and Pull Gently

Once the seal is broken:

  • Slowly wiggle the cup from side to side

  • Keep it upright to avoid spills

  • Gently pull it out at a slight angle

If it feels stuck, pause and relax. Tension in your pelvic floor can make removal harder.

🩸 Step 6: Empty, Rinse, and Reinsert or Store

Once out:

  • Pour the blood into the toilet or sink

  • Rinse the cup with water (and mild soap, if available)

  • Reinsert for continued use, or store it if you're done for the day

If you're in a public bathroom:

  • Wipe the cup with tissue or cup wipes

  • Rinse it at the next opportunity

🔄 How Often Should You Remove It?

You should empty and rinse your cup every 8 to 12 hours, or more often if you have a heavy flow.
Never leave it in for more than 12 hours.

🧘 Final Tips for Easy Removal

  • Stay calm and relaxed—panic tightens your muscles

  • Use a water-based lubricant on your finger if needed

  • Practice in the shower for easier cleanup

  • Try different cup brands or sizes if removal is always difficult

💬 Final Thoughts

Removing a menstrual cup with your finger may sound awkward at first, but it’s easier than you think—and it gives you complete control. With practice, it’ll become as routine as removing a tampon—just safer, cleaner, and more eco-friendly.

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Check out our collection at NYXCollection — your go-to source for reusable, body-safe period care.

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